My middle daughter which I raised from two had to choose between I and her natural father. He had not been around much when she was a young girl. She decided that we would both walk her down the isle. Of course he argued she defended her choice. I stepped up and said here is what we will do. Both us will walk you down the isle, we will stop at the front row. I will tell you that I love you give you a kiss and sit down by your mom. Your dad can walk you the final 10ft. She loved idea and bn it got her off the spot.